I’ve been reflecting on a truth every pastor and ministry leader knows all too well: sometimes gratitude doesn’t come naturally. We preach hope, lead with courage, and call people to trust God—often while carrying private burdens, disappointments, or anxieties that no one else sees. 

Ministry has a way of stretching us. Many of our pastors are navigating unseen pressure, strained relationships, leadership challenges, or simply the weight of shepherding God’s people. And yet, Scripture doesn’t give us an exemption. How I wish I could get a pass on this! But gratitude isn’t a suggestion for when life feels easy; it’s a practice we choose. 

Paul’s words in 1^st Thessalonians 5:16–18 speak directly to this tension:
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

In all circumstances.

So how do we remain grateful when it’s hard? A few reminders that have anchored me:

1. Gratitude starts with remembering who God is.
   Even when circumstances shift, His character does not. He remains faithful, attentive, and present. When I can’t give thanks for what’s happening around me, I can still give thanks for who He is within me.
2. Gratitude grows when we pay attention to small graces.
   A conversation that encouraged you. A moment of clarity. Provision you didn’t expect. Fruit you didn’t see coming. Gratitude is often found in the details, not the headlines.
3. Gratitude strengthens community.
   When we share honestly with one another—our joys and our struggles—we remind each other that we aren’t alone. One friend can lift another. 
4. Gratitude keeps us grounded in Jesus.
   Pastors lead not because ministry is easy, but because Christ is worthy. The cross and the resurrection anchor our hope, even in seasons when our feelings waver.

You’ve heard me and others say that we are better together. And I am grateful for you. For pastors and leaders who keep showing up, serving faithfully, and trusting God in the hard moments. Your perseverance is seen.

My prayer for you this month is simple:
May God renew your mind to notice His goodness, even in the hard places. And may gratitude become not a feeling you wait for, but a practice that keeps your heart aligned with His.